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Truth feels like Relief

One of the biggest AHA moments many of my clients get when they start working with me is that truth feels like relief – even if it seems painful, at first.

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There’s a complex mental avoidance mechanism going on when we do not want to see the full truth of a situation, which can create chronic stress symptoms – for example when we want to avoid addressing trauma or adverse childhood experiences. This avoidance mechanism is a protection process that tries to keep our assumptions about life as unchanging as possible, because this part of us is trying to keep us “safe”.

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However, addressing the truth about what really happened, or the truth about how life really is, instead of sugarcoating it, actually feels like a relief.

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And yet, because we are trained to avoid certain truths, we are afraid of what might happen if these sugarcoated truths were revealed.

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For example, in relationships, we often have a “gut feeling” about someone when we don’t fully trust them. And yet, since most of us were raised to be polite, we often choose not to go with that gut feeling, and to stay polite, instead.

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So, we are trying to make things work with that person – to literally STAY, politely, instead of leaving – even though our body mirrors back to us that we do not trust them.

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Allowing yourself to examine that intuitive body mirror will always reveal very valid reasons for why your body does not trust that person.

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And revealing that truth is the relief your body aches for. It is the clarity of being able to let go of someone, even if, on paper, that someone might have been perfect.

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Your body knows if they aren’t.

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Trust that knowing.

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If you need any help with deciphering the messages your body mirrors back at you, contact me for a free Intro Conversation. This is the work that I do.

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Lilly

Lilly Mackuth offers private, customised coaching Sessions (online, or in person) to help you access your unique #innerwisdomsystem, see life with new eyes and understand the energetic patterns underneath your current (relationship) issues.

Learn more at LillyMackuth.com

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